Be happy

I remembered a phrase.

"Blowing other peoples candles doesn't mean yours will shine more brightly."

it sound something like that.
Is it true?

It IS true.

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Imagine, in a dark room.

Where there was hundreds or maybe thousands of candles.
And someone will be chosen to be a winner or leader or something like that.
If you blow other candles, you will be the only one left.
You will be the only hopes left.
You will be the only one could be seen by the 'judges' who open the dark room.

Am I RIGHT?

But its not a quite GOOD thing. Competition is GOOD to make yourself better. You need competition in life.

You will not become a GREAT person if you play some dirty 'tricks'.

Okay then some one would ask,

"What if i am not blowing other peoples candles, and sit still to be chosen, but in the end they did not choose me...!"


Easy, patients. Be patient. You never know what comes ahead you. You never know that the next 'judges' that come into the dark room is MUCH GREAT than the previous 'judges'.

It just a matter of time. You should make some efforts. If you want to look better than others, work it out!

Don't just sit there and wait. 'Decorate' your candles, 'sprinkles' some perfume on your candle to make it smell more lovely. Just do what ever it take to win the heart of the 'judges'. BUT no 'dirty tricks'.

For example, if you really like a guy would you eliminate other girls who like this guy as well? Don't you try to change yourself and approach him in a good ways? I mean looking great with great hair in front of him. Wear a lovely tudung( you could try SUNSILK ). You don't push other girls aside, instead you make your self better.

If you didn't get he to like you. Its okay. Don't hurt yourself.

Hey, at least you do your BEST. There still a LOT of guys out there. Waiting for you. You never know that 'the guy' would be BETTER than the guy you used to like a lot before (he might be MORE handsome~~ ^____^ ).

Ah really want to share this text message i got from a really nice friend. But it is in Malay Language. If anyone out there didn't understand Malay leave me a comment, i will explain it to you. *wink wink*

"Bila tuhan turunkan hujan, kita menangis mencari cari di mana matahari kita. Tanpa kita ketahui, tuhan nak beri kita PELANGI yang indah"

So girls, my tips to become a GREAT person today is, BE POSITIVE!!!

REMEMBER!!!

Everything happens for a reason.

Tentukan Hidup Anda!

xxx